Parents’ Laughter and Tears at Adopting Siblings
Emma and Mike, a couple from North Yorkshire, recently shared their heartfelt journey of adopting siblings— a brother and sister— this January. Their story emphasizes the joys and challenges of adoption, especially during a time when fewer people are stepping forward to adopt.
The Impact of Adoption on Families
– Concerns: Adoption Matters charity reported a 12% decrease in adoption registrations in England from 2024 to 2025, potentially linked to the rising cost of living.
– Their Journey: Emma and Mike’s children had been in foster care for two and a half years before they found their forever family.
– Joy in Togetherness: Emma expressed, “There’s so much loveliness in them being together…we’ve just got the joy of being able to join in with that dynamic.”
– Facing Challenges: Emma acknowledged the intimidating nature of adoption but reflected that parenting itself is overwhelmingly rewarding.
Encouraging Others to Consider Adoption
– Emma and Mike are passionate about advocating for adoption as a fulfilling choice rather than a last resort. Emma stated, “We don’t want people to think that because we’re an adoptive family it must be because it’s biologically not possible.”
– They first connected with their children during an “adoption activity day,” where an unforgettable moment occurred when Mike heard their son laugh from afar. Emma was moved, saying, “They have my heart.”
An Urgent Need for Families
– Recent statistics revealed there are 390 children in the Yorkshire and Humber region waiting for adoptive families. Jacqui Shore from Adoption Matters stressed the urgent need for more families amid current economic challenges, noting limitations in available adoption support.
A Positive Adoption Experience
– Reflecting on their past ten months, Emma described the whirlwind of emotions that have come with being a family, noting, “There’s just been a whole lot of laughter. Lots of tears, too, but that’s what makes us feel like a regular family.”
– Emma and Mike’s story highlights the importance of considering adoption as a meaningful pathway to creating a family, especially as the demand for adoptive homes continues to rise.
By sharing their experiences, Emma and Mike hope to inspire others to explore the rewarding journey of adoption.