How Israel’s Grassroots Hostage Families Group Became a Powerful International Force
In central Tel Aviv, Hostages Square has served as a poignant reminder of the battle waged by families of hostages captured during the traumatic attacks of October 7, 2023. The main stage may be dismantled, and signs and posters have been removed, but the spirit of the Hostages and Missing Families Forum remains vibrant.
The Backdrop of Hostage Resilience
Of the 251 hostages taken by Hamas and other Palestinian groups during the attacks, 168 have returned alive, and eight have been rescued. Tragically, only one deceased hostage, Ran Gvili, remains unaccounted for. Each Friday, the Gvili family gathers in Hostages Square to mark the onset of the Jewish Sabbath, lighting candles for Hanukkah while holding onto hope for their son, a police officer who was killed after rushing to aid in Kibbutz Alumim.
“It feels like every day is still October 7. We’re strong, and we’re waiting for him, says Itzik Gvili, Ran’s father. “The support from the people gives us hope.”
The Birth of a Movement
From its inception, people power has fueled the Hostages Families Forum. In the unsettling aftermath of the October attacks, distraught relatives assembled for the first time in a Tel Aviv underground car park, searching for answers and solace.
We were shocked together and realized the formidable challenge ahead—understanding where our loved ones were and getting them home, recalls Gil Dickmann, whose cousin was among the abducted. The second thing was knowing we were not alone.
This solidarity sparked the creation of the forum, with the powerful slogan: Bring them home now. It provided families with a sense of agency, especially during the initial chaotic days following the attacks.
“It felt like the government and the state had collapsed, but Israeli society was thriving, adds Dickmann. “That gave me hope.”
Mobilizing Support and Action
Divided between family support initiatives and advocacy efforts both in Israel and globally, the Hostages Families Forum enlisted over 10,000 volunteers, including former diplomats, lawyers, and security officials. Their fundraising efforts enabled them to hire staff and secure office space in Tel Aviv.
In November 2023, Israel and Hamas agreed to a Qatar-mediated truce, leading to the release of many women and child hostages in exchange for over 240 Palestinian prisoners. However, fighting resumed shortly after, leaving many hostages still detained.
“We were in a deep war, and public opinion had turned against us, explains campaign manager Lior Chorev. As a civil society organization, we couldn’t dictate terms, but we focused on ensuring our voices were heard in Israel.
Persistence and Public Engagement
The Hostages Families Forum organized numerous demonstrations, art installations, and concerts to keep the issue of hostages at the forefront of public attention. This relentless effort earned them the reputation of a civil rights organization akin to a foreign ministry for the families affected.
Michael Levy, whose sister-in-law was killed and brother taken hostage, emphasizes the therapeutic value of activism. The only thing that helped was becoming active. I spoke with whoever would listen. Staying optimistic was essential, even if it felt like I was lying to myself.
Political and Social Challenges
Tensions mounted between the forum and the Israeli government as public sentiment turned toward prioritizing the elimination of Hamas over recovering hostages. Some government actions, including a controversial leak of a secret document, added to the strain.
When members of the Forum attended a joint session of Congress in July 2024, they wore T-shirts proclaiming Seal the Deal. However, they were arrested for unlawful demonstration. I felt most alone during that moment,” recalls Dickmann, highlighting the emotional toll of the situation.
A Turning Tide
As the war continued, international condemnation of Israel’s military actions escalated. Public support for a hostage deal grew in Israel, culminating in a significant shift due to the newly elected US president.
In January 2025, the US secured a deal that brought 33 hostages back, including some deceased. Although the ceasefire was short-lived, this was a pivotal moment for families yearning for closure.
Frail from their ordeal, recently released hostages joined efforts in the US to advocate for the return of those still unaccounted for. Their collective voices amplified the urgency of their plea to the American government, emphasizing a strong familial bond among all hostages.
The Journey Continues
In a bittersweet turn, Ran Gvili’s family continues to seek his remains among the ruins of Gaza. With nearly all hostages returned, the Hostages Families Forum remains committed to their mission, vowing to support each other until every last person is accounted for.
As plans for a final rally unfold, the dedication of families like the Gvilis serves as a symbol of resilience. “We have been here through everything—rain, heat, winter—until the last one comes home, says Tali from Tel Aviv.
Conclusion: A Legacy of Hope and Unity
The evolution of the Hostages Families Forum into a formidable international force underscores the profound impact of grassroots movements. Their enduring message resonates with the broader Israeli society, promoting a theme of unity and hope. As they continue their fight, the legacy of those lost remains a testament to the strength and solidarity of a community determined to ensure that no one is forgotten.